Fond remembers the little things he tells you.

Fond keeps a private note on every man you're talking to, built from your chat screenshots. Green flags for the good ones. A red flag when his story changes. All on your iPhone.

Three steps. Fond does the remembering.

Screenshot the chat

Any chat with a man you're talking to, on Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, WhatsApp or iMessage. His profile works too.

Share it to Fond

Tap share and choose Fond. It reads the screenshot on your iPhone and works out which messages are his.

His note grows

His work, his family, his plans and what to ask him next time, in one private note. Green flags when he follows through, and a red flag if his story changes.

What Fond keeps for each man

Work
Family
Pets
Likes and dislikes
Plans and dates
Things to ask

A green flag when he follows through
A red flag when his story changes

See how Fond works

Green flags for the good ones. A red flag when his story changes.

Fond is on your side. It celebrates the men who show up, and quietly points out when something doesn't add up.

Green flags

He asks about your exam. He makes a real plan. His story stays the same. Fond notices, and keeps the receipts.

Red flags

His story changes. He asks for money. He pushes you off the app too fast. Fond shows you the screenshots and lets you decide.

A smiling black and tan kelpie sitting by a brick wall

Be the one who remembers.

His dog is called Biscuit. His sister lives in Lisbon. Drinks are Saturday at 7. Fond keeps it all straight, even with a few chats on the go.

Who said what. Fond knows your messages from his, so his note only holds what he told you.
Every fact has its receipt. Tap any detail to see the screenshot it came from.
Plans and reminders. Dates and times he mentions become gentle reminders, if you'd like them.
One man, every app. When Hinge turns into WhatsApp, his note comes too.
Questions for next time. A short list of things to ask him, drawn from what he shared.

Your notes stay on your iPhone. That's the whole plan.

Fond's intelligence runs on the phone itself. There is no account, no server holding your chats, and nobody sees your notes but you.

Everything stays on your iPhone
No account, no sign-up
Locked with Face ID
Kept out of iCloud backup
Nothing is ever sent to him, or anyone
No ads, no tracking, no data sold

Read the privacy promise

More than one chat on the go?

Tom from Hinge, Luca from Bumble, Jake on WhatsApp. Fond keeps each one straight, so you never mix up whose sister is getting married. Great for ADHD brains and full calendars.

Dating again after a long break?

The apps move fast. Fond gives you a calm, private place to keep what each man shares, and a nudge before you see him.

Start with the free Who am I talking to? board.

One card per man, in your browser. Nothing is uploaded, and you can export it as a spreadsheet any time.

Open the free board

Or download the spreadsheet template

Guides

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Questions

Is it weird to keep notes on the men I date?

Plenty of thoughtful women keep notes to remember birthdays, kids' names and plans. Fond keeps those notes on your iPhone, for your eyes only, so you show up remembering what matters to him.

What counts as a red flag?

Fond flags things that don't add up in what he has told you, like his age, his kids, his job or where he lives changing between chats. It also flags requests for money and pressure to move off the app quickly. Every flag shows the screenshots behind it, and you decide what it means.

Will he know I use Fond?

No. Fond only reads the screenshots you choose, on your iPhone. Nothing is ever sent to him or to anyone else.

Does Fond read my messages?

Fond only sees the screenshots you choose to share with it. It reads them on your iPhone and never sends them anywhere. It has no access to your dating apps, your messages or the rest of your photos.

Which dating apps does it work with?

Any chat you can screenshot: Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, WhatsApp, iMessage and more. Fond works out who he is and which messages are his from the screenshot itself.

Which iPhones will it work on?

Fond's automatic notes use Apple's on-device intelligence, which runs on iPhone 15 Pro and newer models. Fond is in development, and the waitlist gets the final details first.

How much will it cost?

Fond will be free for the first three men you're talking to. Paid plans will be announced at launch.

When is it coming out?

Fond is in development for iPhone. Join the waitlist and you'll get one email when it launches.

Be first to try Fond.

One email when it launches. Free for the first three men you're talking to.